Love and Relationships

Love usually referred as symbolic bridge of acceptance between two objects. Acceptance is what; acceptance of nothing but thinking and thinking in terms of saying or doing. It never meant if virtual page of existence does not exist then there is no love rather it shows there is probability of love. When there is probability then there can or cannot be an established bridge of relationships. This sort of phenomenon is usually found between two bodies that they had spent good amount of time and are referred as carrier of love in society. They are going to unlearn what they have learnt after defining the symbolic bridge of acceptance because after peek they have to analyze and mature their boding and same requires recurring testing and testing generates loud conversation, more un acceptability between them which usually refers as quarrel between the souls.

You cannot hate somebody until you have had any sort of love relationship because that is the obvious out point of love process so if we see a mature couple practicing quarrels on routine basis it does not always meant that they are misfits rather it could be contrary.

Once you analyze that you are running high you start loving lows of life by referring the related incident in your mind.

“There are no breakups without love”

Once you are across the acceptance bridge and are being referred as reference relationship among the circle, is called a love relationship between the two bodies but post achieving comfort of relationship you start spreading the acceptance in every way of life by looking left and right of acceptance bridge (which are nothing but the prohibited 25 percent area of each relationship consisting of very personal memories, old love relationships, and breakups), it hits back on acceptance bridge level and long hurts it. As you start increasing your curiosity in that prohibited zones you starts breaking the relationships. It happens gradually and after certain interval the bridge of acceptance becomes weaker and a day it falls.

What are dos and don’ts of managing relationships?

“Do not try to open what is still closed, it may harm you”  

Whether it father-mother, sister-brother, children-parents, employee-employer or husband-wife relationships; always run with balance in each relationship and ensure you are not crossing the boundary of acceptance bridge and are restricting your own curiosity to explore twenty five percent restricted relationship view of other person. By running on the defined process of managing relationships, every relation can be managed successfully.

Planning success – Aim a step ahead than Aim!!

Success is again a destination or a specific area which you want to hit; as it is relative so it would be different for each individual.

When I was in my high schools, like any other same age kid I was also fascinated in learning the martial arts. Coach reminded us to aim a step ahead

“Aim a step ahead, if you success point reaches in between your attack and destination point the hit will be much unexpected to opponent, heavier than normal and could turn into winning move”

"Chaubeylogy" says when you have nothing but feeling of attack only, attack will be a divine effort. To generate such feeling you have to feel could be defeat and put your everything into the attack as it is the single moment to live in those feelings; and once you are able to visualize the pain of getting defeated, suddenly your attacks are now equipped with thought energy to hit harder, your aim is now more clearer and once destination is in front of you and you are equipped enough to aim the attack, put your aim a step ahead after the point of destination and attack.

During a martial art fight of 9 minutes, each 3 minute round requires stamina of attacking on an average 100 kicks and 20 punches and to generate power of required attack, one need to plan it in terms of yearlong training. This training requires 2 hours daily, you practice different attack strategies and try to learn tactics which helps in understanding opponents attack. Chaubeylogy says to understand attack you need to understand opposite of attack i.e. defense, if your defense is so powerful that attack’s existence is no more there than your aim is hit.

What is the psychology of attack; let us try as Chaubeylogy says

“Attack is nothing but dense only”

I tried utilizing our nickels, elbows and knees to defend kicking attacks of our opponent, on that strategy I won state level gold medal in that championship.

Another key part of the winning strategy is your opponent and opponent are nothing but the environmental factor in your surroundings which creates hurdle to your every wish and they always are equipped with some key attack astra-shastra (attacking techniques) and they looks to be master of that attacking type.

If you are able to hit on that exact attacking type of the opponent’s strength, you normally surprises him by your move and opponent is never prepared to accept that someone can attack on his most strengthen area, as in one of the fight my opponent was the master of a specific kicking attack and I tried my techniques there and Chaubeylogy ensured my defend of utilizing my nickels on his shin area and opponent was so surprised by my defend that he got feared in putting further attack as his leg was paining so high now that his mind could not be able to control the desires of putting his strengthen attack further in fight and he was not master of other moves which I was and I was average only, I won that fight.

“Becoming master of one move does not ensures that opponent is master of all moves, hit his strength area, hit hard, you win!!”

Controlling Perceptions to Manage Happy Life

Amrit Anand – Controlling Perceptions to Manage Happy Life

Amrit is always referred as something which makes you immortal; it’s a feeling of joy which makes part of existing environment. Nature works in accordance with its defined laws, and as a integral PAR T of this nature we all are bound to perform such laws in anand ways.

On a discussion one of my friends referred a thought of a great scholar that Modern Science says 64 zeanes are being controlled by the impact of your mood. If you have positive mood you have better chances to achieve success and if you have negative than you know.

So how to achieve this positive mood, Chaubeylogy says it all is within you, perhaps you need to visualize the entity from a different angle.

To achieve Good Mood you have to feel the heights of happiness which lies inside you only. As you do in accordance with your mood and starts becoming successful it is always very important to leans the basics.

Happiness is outcome of your mood; you build your mood by the derivative of your behavior to others and thus you build your own moral strength. This moral strength plays an important role in defining happiness in one’s life. So how to control mood.

“There is nothing like mood in life there are only planned actions which either you decides to plan or other plans to decide for you.”

It is much easier to grab something if it does not exist rather something with physical existence because mood is something which does not exist then it must be a perception and perceptions can only be dealt by clarifying them and this clarification of perception is possible by defining straight actions which are good for you and are not giving pain to others, if possible.  

Remaining in good mood consists of playing with kids, nurturing plants in the balcony, supporting old aged guard of basement parking at night 11:30 Pm, singing old kishore kumar songs, thinking about some college incidents when you played with neighbors in a history way or failed love stories….you know good mood also comes from tears, imaging a failed love story of a old lover who kissed you first time tears and good moods along with 4 pegs of whisky are common mood enhancers.

So be happy and help others in becoming happy.

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Achieve Any Target – Chaubeylogy fundamentals for Success

“I would if I could, but I won’t, because I can’t” These are some of the lines I still remember from my college days.

I still think that achieving any target, whether personal or professional. To reach from source to destination what u need is a strong plan, capability to execute and related budget to accomplish the task.

“Do the things you fear and fear will disappear”

It looks like wordings from some project management book but ultimately to reach to the destination point u has to understand the strategy to define best bridge from source point.

After not clearing the back papers in the college days, repeatedly, when a student think of dropping the college then he need simply a plan to get pass and in such high emotional scenarios, there are cases when students commits even suicide because he was not having any positive hope left in him, which is a temporary event of thought and if the emotional pressure is higher, there are chances of mis happening leading bad news around.

It may be the similar case from a girl who is cutting her veins for her lover or someone else who has lost the Faith inside, the real moral support which is always there inside him/her.

If I am true about my own happening and truly accept the mistakes, it opens up a door for hope and here from we start the strategy to reach to the success point. As every strategy has a life cycle around it, the Chaubeylogy refers following:

Plan:

Plan to what? Chaubeylogy says do not plan to pass rather do plan for obvious failures, this will ensure you to requires success.

Execute

After defining the identified failure points, seek the ways in which u can get fail.  Close all such doors define responsibility for sustenance of this and start achieving quick wins.

Monitor

You have to be a true invigilator of your own actions, as if it goes good it comes back with goody and for bad, worst must be visible as this is the true jungle law.

Accept

The outcome which has been sorted from output would ideally be the evaluation of your success.

I - The real Brahm

I – Innermost, intuitive and indeed innovative method to know You

Let me tell you true way to understand Chaubeylogy - The art of mind waves.

During the journey of life you are always in the course of finding, deciding and opting for different procedures of life to better utilize the available resources to achieve the “CORRECT” objective of life through social belongings.

To reach the CORRECT entity you apply different trial and error methods and finds a optimal reach point to declare it a correct.

Life is always been confusing for a normal living as it is full of playing with understanding kind of thinking of different people.

To reach others you utilizes your learning to create the touch with others so to achieve our internal objective in fact we are utilizing resources from outside and by applying the most non obvious analytics you are achieving your correct entity in a planned and less time manner.

So the journey starts with I, until unless you know yourself you cannot even think of knowing others as to know other you have to know you so Chaubeylogy says:

“Know I, to know We”

You always have heard to taking care of poor people, supporting older parents and taking good care of wife and children so what you always try to do is focus on the achieving part, fulfilling the responsibility and commitments feeling for others and you always misses the “I” part of it. What you end up receiving is not one you are thinking of receiving rather somewhat different than of our thoughts and imagination. Usually more nearness start putting understanding gaps and visible fall in graph of good relationship and thus achieving failure in achieving object of ownership and accountability towards our mission.

What I suggest to do is just opposite of your methods means just think the opposite as target to achieve and work to close that in a planned manner to achieve desired success.

To achieve “We”, one need to focus on “I”, the real opposite goal.

So Start considering I and stop considering the obvious needs of We, what it should result in?

            Focused care of yourself as an individual resulting in

§  Handsome and attractive looking personality

§  Smart dressing

§  Wise and focused answers and required attentiveness

This says you are now able to take yourself for the next level and you are succeeding in defining values of life.

If you able to take care of yourself and have power in your hand so called powerful then only you can protect others.

One who wants to rule without power usually faces more difficulties in regular activities rather than a powerful person who has aura to resolve the issues and things work in more positive manner to achieve “We”.

Manage I to Manage We - New Managemenat Mantra

I – Innermost, intuitive and indeed innovative method to know You

Let me tell you true way to understand Chaubeylogy the art of mind waves.

“Know I, to know We”

You always have heard to taking care of poor people, supporting older parents and taking good care of wife and children so what you always try to do is focus on the achieving part, fulfilling the responsibility and commitments feeling for others and you always misses the “I” part of it. What you end up receiving is not one you are thinking of receiving rather somewhat different than of our thoughts and imagination. Usually more nearness start putting understanding gaps and visible fall in graph of good relationship and thus achieving failure in achieving object of ownership and accountability towards our mission.

What I suggest to do is just opposite of your methods means just think the opposite as target to achieve and work to close that in a planned manner to achieve desired success.

To achieve “We”, one need to focus on “I”, the real opposite goal.

So Start considering I and stop considering the obvious needs of We, what it should result in?

            Focused care of yourself as an individual resulting in

§  Handsome and attractive looking personality

§  Smart dressing

§  Wise and focused answers and required attentiveness

This says you are now able to take yourself for the next level and you are succeeding in defining values of life.

If you able to take care of yourself and have power in your hand so called powerful then only you can protect others.

One who wants to rule without power usually faces more difficulties in regular activities rather than a powerful person who has aura to resolve the issues and things work in more positive manner to achieve We.

Science of Opposition - II ( "Sayings and Phrases")

Chaubeylogy always says, do different in same atmosphere..The nature of human psychology always makes it true and interesting. There is a great connection of truth with lie as referred in last post that until you will touch the height of orgasms, you can not be away from inner sex which one claims after reaching the divine inner state...

" You can not hate somene until you love him.."

Following are some of the example of these contrary versions of human behaviour, i don't claim cent percent occuring but you yourself can analyze and see how true this is..and if you all like in the next part i am ready to explain the related reasons as well.

1. Who looks to be the most powerful person is the weakest from heart and is always full of fear

2. One who is considered as most lively person, carries much loneliness than a normal person

3. People who looks to be the richest one carries a lot of fear of losing the collated wealth

4. One who looks strongest physically is the person who is always full of fear to be defeated by unknown

5. One who shows the most affectionate to you, be cautious of of his Affection

6. One who shows the great kindness to everybody, mostly it is to be watched cautiously

7. One who seems most enthusiastic mostly carries the chances to loose the enthusiasm in between, during the journey

8. One who seems most faithful, be aware of his advices

9. One who claiming the best friend to you, carries best caliber to become your enemy

10.One who repeatedly claims to your success and benefits, may be the biggest failure point for you.